Treating your guy to a lap dance should be hot. but actually giving one can be, well, awkward. So we asked Kimberly Smith, owner of StripXpertease, a studio offering striptease classes in New York City, to give us the simple moves that'll make his jaw come unhinged.
The Sexy Lean
Stand between his legs and lean you upper body forward, with your back arched and your butt up in the air, so he gets a hot view of your body. Put your hands on the wall above him, or rest them on the arms of the chair for support. Then tease him by inching your girls closer and closer to his face — but don't let him touch — or dip forward even further and rub them against his chest.
For this one, start a little further back, right between his knees, so he can see everything you're doing. Take your hands and slowly start to rub your boobs, like you're putting on body lotion. Touch yourself like you would want him to
touch you — trail your hands down to your lower abs just above your hot spot, work your way back up to your chest, or turn around and massage your butt. The key is to go in slow mo, so he can imagine having his hands all over you.
Your hottest seduction tool is your hips, and this move is super easy to master. Slowly start swaying your hips from side to side, and then move them in a figure eight. Up the ante by touching yourself as you do it — this is a prime time to show off your "lotion" skills.
Turn around and hover your butt just above his crotch (you can put your hands on his thighs or the arms of the chair for balance). Move your butt in circles, like you're painting his package with your cheeks. Then switch to an up and down motion, like you're riding him in reverse cowgirl. To really make him pitch a tent, look back at him as you grind against his body.